Why We Homeschool - Brenna Heater

Why We Homeschool

Homeschooling, Personal

When we first starting homeschooling, we would often be asked, “Why?” There really are many reasons, but the quickest answer I came up with as a reply was, “There is no good reason not to.”

But if you’re interested in the long answer, then here it is:


As Christians, it was vital for us that our kids be fully immersed in our faith and learn biblical history along with language arts, math, science, art, music, etc. This is obviously not going to happen in a government school, so that wasn’t an option for us.

With the remaining options being a private Christian school or homeschooling, the latter was the clear choice for us.

“When a child is fully trained, he will be like his teacher.” Luke 6:40

Family Time

Homeschooling provides the incredible opportunity to spend time together as a family. There is truly nothing more important after cultivating a relationship with The Lord. I spend nearly all of my time with my kids, which can definitely be hard at times, but then I truly treasure my alone time and make it more intentional.


We have the freedom to teach our children what we want, without the government stepping in. Arizona is an amazing state for homeschooling! There are no standardized tests, no “school time” requirements, and no mandatory check-ins. We are truly FREE!

Yes, we still pay our city and state taxes to fund government schools, and no, we don’t receive any tax breaks or incentives for homeschooling.

Homeschooling also lets me teach my kids according to their own learning styles: Visual, Auditory, or Kinesthetic. When I know how they learn best, I can incorporate different things into our daily school routine. For example, Kinesthetic learners love to have something to do with their hands while they listen to a story. Do you ever see women at church knitting while listening to the sermon? They’re likely Kinesthetic learners!

If I had a Kinesthetic learner, I’d let him color or build with LEGO bricks while I read him a Bible story. In a typical classroom environment, this would likely not be allowed. This student would have to sit quietly at his desk and listen to the teacher, but his mind may start to wander and he wouldn’t retain any of the story.

All children learn differently, and homeschooling allows the freedom to explore what’s best for each individual child.


We’re on our own timeline. I can let my kids sleep late if they need to. There’s no rushing out the door to get to school on time. We can take vacations when everyone else is in school. We have more time for activities during the day so we can have dinner together every night. We can take a day off–without a single penalty–if someone isn’t feeling well, if we have a really busy day, or if we’re just not in the mood.

We usually begin our new school year in June or July, when it’s blazing hot outside and we spend a majority of our time at home anyway. We also follow somewhat of a year-round schedule and take one week off after five weeks of school. As a mom who also works from home, if I have a crazy, busy week of portrait sessions + editing, then usually just take the week off and pick up the following week. Our scheduled breaks are very flexible and we have lots of wiggle room as to when they actually happen.

We also love to take an extended break in the Fall, when it’s my busiest season. It’s a bonus that the weather is amazing here so we’re able to spend a lot more time outside after being cooped up inside for 3-4 months.


Homeschooling really is so much fun! Yes, we have our hard days. But we have way more easy and fun days. We do field trips (usually on our own, but there are tons of homeschool field trip groups here), visit the zoo, go to train park, play at the gym, see a play/symphony/ballet, and so much more.

Homeschooling, especially in the younger years, doesn’t take nearly as much time as you’d think. We were able to finish kindergarten in about 45 minutes a day, and 1st grade usually takes no more than two hours a day. That leaves us so much time to play, explore, and go on adventures together.

I truly love chatting with others about homeschooling, so if you have any questions, please be sure to leave them in the comments below. I love hearing from you!


  1. Caitlin says:

    Hi Brenna, we will be homeschooling my rising 1st grader this year, and after that we are just going to see how it goes and what she needs/prefers. Could you share a typical day schedule for homeschooling and which curriculum you use and why? I am also looking for something with Bible included.

    • brennaheater says:

      Hi, Caitlin! We use My Father’s World curriculum (www.mfwbooks.com) and love it so much. Bible is the central focus of every subject, which is the primary reason we chose it. The 1st grade program is called Learning God’s Story. It includes all subjects so you don’t need to supplement anything. You just open your teacher’s manual and go! First grade took an average of 60-90 minutes/day Monday-Thursday. Friday is a flex day that we usually used for fun field trips or other hands-on activities that went with the week’s lesson. No two days look alike for us, but we prefer to get school done right after breakfast and have free time the rest of the day. Some mornings my kids had activities or I had to photograph a newborn, so then we did school in the afternoon. But attitudes and attention are typically better in the AM šŸ˜‰

  2. Stacy says:

    Hi Brenna! I am excited that I found you and this blog! I am planning to homeschool my son sometime in the next two years (he will be 5 or 6). I am just getting into family photography full time after 10 years of wedding photography, so Iā€™m feeling determined to get an idea of a plan before time flies and Iā€™m trying to balance these like ā€œšŸ˜³šŸ˜³šŸ˜³ā€ lol! I am wondering: when you have sessions and tons of editing to do, how to you schedule that with homeschooling? Would love to hear your opinion on what works best- thanks!! Stacy šŸ˜Š

    • brennaheater says:

      Hi Stacy! I have a private editor who edits all my sessions and mini sessions for me. Outsourcing your editing is the first step I suggest when you start to feel overwhelmed and burnt out. It can give you HOURS of time back and is not expensive at all!

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